Pamela Joy, M.A. | Sex & Relationship Coach | San Jose

From Silicon Valley to Sensual Wellness: Transform Your Intimacy Journey with Expert Guidance

Pamela Joy, M.A.
“Pam Costa is the right balance of professionalism and personality. She is engaging, caring but yet still a therapist. I enjoyed our sessions and I found her to be spot on in many of her assessments”
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“We cannot speak highly enough of Pam. She has completely given us a new perspective on our relationship through exercises, asking the right questions, and just by being so easy to talk to. I knew I...”
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Certified Sex and Relationship Coach
Pamela Joy, M.A. practicing Sex and Relationship Coaching in San Jose, CA

About me

About meI left my high-tech career at Apple and Facebook to found Down To There® to help the world talk more openly about sex and intimacy.

Through my writing, coaching and speaking, I work collaboratively and experientially with clients to increase their capacity for emotional and physical intimacy.

My TEDx talk “Reclaiming Female Sexual Desire” has over 1M views and celebrates the positive impact of peer support on sexual health.

Certified Somatica® Sex and Relationship Coach (CSC)
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My Reviews

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“Pam Costa is the right balance of professionalism and personality. She is engaging, caring but yet still a therapist. I enjoyed our sessions and I found her to be spot on in many of her assessments”
undefined • April 15, 2020
“We cannot speak highly enough of Pam. She has completely given us a new perspective on our relationship through exercises, asking the right questions, and just by being so easy to talk to. I knew I...”
undefined • April 15, 2020
“Pam is AMAZING at what she does. A talented sex coach and speaker, I've booked her for a couple of sessions for the moms group I belong to and she blew everyone away. Not only did she make everyone...”
undefined • April 15, 2020
I help with
Sexual Difficulty/Dysfunction
Relationship Issues
Sex Therapy
Couples Therapy
Sexual Health
Relationship Counseling
Relationships
Erectile Dysfunction
“A healthy outside starts from the inside. ”
- Robert Urich

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I'm based in San Jose, CA and offer in-person and virtual appointments.

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Pamela Joy, M.A.
Sex and Relationship Coach