Somatic Sex & Relationship Coaching | Tenafly, NJ

Trauma Informed Somatic Sex and Relationship Coaching

4 reviews
Odelia Shargian RYT, RSMT, RSME, SEP
“Odelia is a warm and caring therapist who puts you at ease and creates a safe space to explore difficult issues. I came to her to work on issues related to body image, body awareness and phobias re...”
Deborah M. • July 25, 2023
“Therapy with Odelia has been a transformational experience. Under her gentle, kind guidance she has helped me learn about my inner world and care for myself with compassion. Since beginning therapy...”
Rachael G. • July 25, 2023

My Services

20 minute Free Consultation Somatic Sex & Relationship Coaching

Experience a secure attachment and uninhibited expression in your relationships Tune into your feelings and sexuality Embrace all of...

Free · 20 minutes

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In Person Somatic Sex & Relationship Coaching

Traditional sex therapy focuses on sexuality through a clinical or dysfunction-oriented lens. The emphasis is mainly on problem-solving over an extended p...

$135.00 · 60 minutes

Online Somatic Sex & Relationship Coaching

Traditional sex therapy focuses on sexuality through a clinical or dysfunction-oriented lens. The emphasis is mainly on problem-solving over an extended p...

$135.00 · 60 minutes

I'm a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and a Sex and Relationship coach.

I help people get the love they want and deserve through trauma-informed, experiential tools. 


The key to a fulfilling life is having great relationships – particularly intimate ones. 

Everyone is looking for love. 

Relationships allow us to express our full potential, and yet it’s a source of struggle and pain for most people.

That’s because our closest relationships mimic our relationships with our childhood caregivers and trigger childhood wounds. Our protective ways aren’t always conducive to creating close and connected relationships.  

My job is to support you by providing you with relationship enhancing tools. We work to help the empowered adult in you be the one in charge when it comes to relationship choices while honoring the needs of your wounded child. 

You deserve to have the life you want, and it’s my joy and privilege to help you get it. 

I bring years of experience as a trauma informed body/mind healer, weaved in with my own extensive healing journey which is deeply influenced by sex positivity, body acceptance and the movement wisdom of the body. 


Odelia Shargian RYT, RSMT, RSME, SEP practicing Somatic Sex Therapy and Relationship Coaching in Tenafly, NJ

About me

You want love. You want more intimacy, and for your life to be fulfilling and satisfying.

But for some reason, it feels unattainable. Like it’s only for “other” people. You’re at a loss when it comes to the practical aspects of creating a life like this.

I’m here to promise you something. Not only do you deserve to have a life filled with intimacy and connection, it’s something you can create.

The problem is, no one ever taught you how to create it.

Not only that, we think that we’re supposed to know everything about sex and relationships and that it’s supposed to be spontaneous.

This is a lie.

The good news is that there's no shame in not knowing everything and that being good at intimacy is a learnable skill.

This is where I can help as a Somatic Sex and Relationship Coach.

The reason working with a Somatic practitioner around these issues is so effective is because, as opposed to sex or relationship counseling, you get to practice and experience things in your body in real time.

We use the time in our sessions as a relationship lab where you get to practice intimacy skills with me. You get to sense and feel things in your body and learn from that.

It is a well known fact that doing things is a faster, more effective route to learning and transformation than talking or thinking about things.


You deserve to have the life you want, and it’s my joy and privilege to help you get it. 

Somatic Movement Therapist
Somatic Experiencing Practitioner (SEP)

My Reviews

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“Odelia is a warm and caring therapist who puts you at ease and creates a safe space to explore difficult issues. I came to her to work on issues related to body image, body awareness and phobias re...”
Deborah M. • July 25, 2023
“Therapy with Odelia has been a transformational experience. Under her gentle, kind guidance she has helped me learn about my inner world and care for myself with compassion. Since beginning therapy...”
Rachael G. • July 25, 2023
“My session with Odelia was impactful. With her guidance, I was able to access emotions I didn't know I was suppressing. Even in our first meeting, she made me feel safe to move through these emotio...”
Samantha L. • July 24, 2023
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I help with
Attachment Issues
Body Image
Burnout
C-PTSD
Chronic Fatigue
Chronic Stress
Complex trauma
Counseling
Dance Movement Therapy
Emotional Baggage
Emotional Clearing
Emotional Health
Emotional Release
Emotional Resilience
Emotional Trauma
Emotional Wellbeing
Emotional Imbalances
Expressive Arts Therapy
Fatigue
Happiness
Introvert
Intuition Development
Joy
Fears & Phobias
Feeling Stuck In Life
Grief
Guilt
Heartbreak
Loneliness
Irritability
Mental Health
Listening
Mind-Body Connections
Mindfulness
Relationship Issues
Resiliency
Self Acceptance
Self Awareness
Self Compassion
Self Love
Self Worth
Shame
Somatic Experiencing
Somatic Movement Therapy
Somatics
Stress
Tension
Trauma
Awareness Through Movement (ATM)
Anxiety
“"Years as a healer and trauma therapist have taught me that trauma isn’t destiny. The body, not the thinking brain, is where we experience most of our pain, pleasure, and joy, and where we process most of what happens to us. It is also where we do most of our healing, including our emotional and psychological healing. And it is where we experience resilience and a sense of flow." ”
- Resmaa Menakem

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I'm based in Tenafly, NJ and offer in-person and virtual appointments.

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Odelia Shargian RYT, RSMT, RSME, SEP
Somatic Therapist